Many of my students are going through their "Terrible Twos" right now. Yes, I've heard that the 3's are worse than the 2's and the thing is, is that many of these kids aren't even two yet! So in order to honor the many mommies (and daddies) that are recently grueling through this stage of temper tantrums and sleepless nights I wanted to give some tips on how to keep life pleasant. Hopefully you will try a few of these ideas if not all in order to avoid turning into a cranky mess. They are highly recommended by moms I know.
- Take people up on their offers - relatives and friends want to babysit or play with your baby... let them, friends willing to pick up some groceries for you on their trip out... LET THEM! If they're nice enough to offer, be nice back and let them help you out.
- Spoil yourself just a little - get a manicure, mini-facial or enjoy a cupcake. In this economy many aestheticians are willing to come to your home at a smaller price.
- Tell Dad (or Mom) how he can help - he may want to pitch in but doesn't know how to help or read your mind.
- Take a quick trip - whether it's just a night out at a nice restaurant or a weekend getaway, you'll come back revived and ready to tackle the day with new energy.
- Play Music - many current & classic rock musicians have songs that are perfect to jam out to with your baby... try my favorite Jack Johnson or Ziggy Marley!
- Get Yourself Together - brush your teeth & your hair, put on a cute comfortable outfit. You're a professional mom, why not feel like one!
- Hug your spouse - baby hugs are amazing but once in awhile a big bear hug from your spouse can do wonders for your well being.
- Exercise - rent an exercise DVD, run around your neighborhood or better yet join an exercise group or class. Socializing with other mommies while working out is a great way to stay motivated.
- Hire a Daytime Babysitter - getting the little stuff done around the house & running errands will be not only easier for you but more pleasant. This way your baby gets to see another happy face that is devoted to her as well.
- Trust yourself & relax...you are doing a great job!
